For many, Mother’s Day comes with conflicting emotions, triggered by all of the Hallmark-esque, posts, & comments of perfect children, perfect mothers, & perfect lives.
Continue reading MOTHER’S DAY IS COMPLICATEDJUDGE ME?
Trust me when I say, “I already judge myself”. Your judgmental services are not needed.
Continue reading JUDGE ME?WHEN YOUR ABUSER IS YOU
I was researching information on recognizing abuse. Out of nowhere, I realized that I’m the victim of abuse. Not only am I abused, but my abuser is me!
Continue reading WHEN YOUR ABUSER IS YOUI HAD ALREADY DIED
We are all dying. People who are battling health issues, are just more aware of this…
Continue reading I HAD ALREADY DIEDPUPPET STAND
MY DOGS
- dog [ dawg, dog ] noun
- faithful companion, snuggle buddy, depression buster, biggest fan, gentle caretaker, hiking partner, emergency alert system, unconditional love bug, never-let-a-crumb remain on the floor vacuum, best friend, squirrel chasing, unfailing hero, personal trainer, fierce protector, motivational coach, alarm clock, doorbell, official guest greeter, sled puller, chicken wrangler, hole digger
WELCOME TO MY SPRING BREAK
It sucks to finally save a tiny bit of money to go do something fun with the start of spring & then need a procedure 2 states away! Suddenly you have to spend said money & more on getting there & a hotel. Welcome to my “Spring Break”.
Continue reading WELCOME TO MY SPRING BREAKHEAVY SWEATER LEAVE
What do you do?
When you know you need to move?
Move that body
Get in the groove
BREAKING THROUGH
The first day of Spring is here
Signs of rebirth all around
Time for newness cheer
Telling myself; be strong
INCHING TO FREEDOM
Two steps forward, one step back
It’s a new day; do what you can
Put that smile on your face; stay on track
Weakening you is his plan
DAMAGED YET MOVING
Silently suffering through the years
at what dad did
You walk around in numbed fear
as mom didn’t listen to words you said
STRONG SPIRIT
Imagine being a young girl,
so excited about her dreams
Imagine a young girl,
her father shattered her dreams
EVIL SOUL
Evil soul, evil soul
that’s who you are
Evil soul, evil soul
you will not go very far
HOW DARE YOU
Once upon a time,
there was a young girl,
filled with dreams all the time
Til that night all changed for the young girl.
MY MOMENTS MAY NOT BE EASY, BUT MY MEMORIES WILL BE BEAUTIFUL
I had to take a trip to Boston for an appointment on Friday. I went with my Mom & two of my granddaughters… girls trip!
Continue reading MY MOMENTS MAY NOT BE EASY, BUT MY MEMORIES WILL BE BEAUTIFULWHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOUR CAREGIVER GETS SICK
Come on in, take a seat. I’ll tell you, what happened when my caretaker got sick.
Continue reading WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOUR CAREGIVER GETS SICKBRAIN OVER BODY
I decided that my body is not making the rules this year! I’m creating a list of things I can do even on those days where I can’t even get out of bed.
Continue reading BRAIN OVER BODYSOMEDAY IS TODAY
I have spent a lot of time thinking about my life, time & choices, since I became sick. But this year with the pandemic and David’s health scare, I realized that I’m not the only one who’s “somedays” are limited. None of us know how many “somedays” we have left. The time has come. Someday is today.
Continue reading SOMEDAY IS TODAYMY WEIGHTED BLANKET

APPRECIATION
We talk a lot about being grateful, thankful, blessed, positive, and many other things that pertain to how “we” feel. I realized this morning that try as I may, I don’t always let the people who create these feelings in me, know how much they mean to me.
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